Sex Trafficking – A Man’s point of view of Sex Slavery, Rape, Prostitution

Sex Trafficking – A Man’s point of view of Sex Slavery, Rape, Prostitution:

There is a lot of controversy over the topics of sex trafficking, sex slavery, human trafficking and forced prostitution. Regarding what the definition is, the research methods used to find statistics,  what the definition of a victim is,  the number of child and adult victims involved,  forced vs. unforced sex, how the actual prostitutes themselves feel about it, and legal vs. illegal prostitution.

Below is a very Frank discussion about Sex Slavery and Rape coming from a man’s point of view:

Men have a very strong need to help and protect women and children. This has been bred into us.

When people talk about Human Trafficking they mostly refer to Sex Trafficking. Even though there are many forms of Human Trafficking per se.

To understand the concept of Sex Slavery for profit or sex slave prostitution against the prostitute’s will with men from the general population.  Which is usually used to define sex trafficking, you need to understand the concept of sex. And the concept of Male sexuality.

There is a BIG difference between sexually abusing or raping a woman, and sexually abusing or raping a woman for profit.

It is much harder to rape a woman for profit, because male customers of prostitutes do not want to rape women and would report women who are being raped to the police.

In order to rape a woman for profit, she would need to see men (male customers) from the general population.

Most men do not want nor can they rape women or children.

Sex is not easy for men.  Sex is a complicated process for men.

Men need to have a hard erection in order to have sex.

Getting an erection is a complicated process.

Getting a rock hard erection is not necessarily easy for men.

In order for a man to have a hard erection, he must be sexually aroused by the woman, feel comfortable, and continue to be aroused or he will lose the erection and have a soft flaccid penis.

Is a woman or child who is crying, kicking, and screaming that she does not want to have sex with him a big turn on for men?  Does this make men sexually excited?  Does this give men a rock hard erection when this happens?

Do men always get rock hard erections when they rape women or children against their will?  Does this always turn men on sexually?

For most men the answer is no.  Most men will never get an erection raping a woman who hates him, and does not want to have sex with him, or they will lose the erection quickly.  And have a soft flaccid penis.

Men, when they see a prostitute are looking for an adult sexy woman and want a  “girlfriend experience”  and want the woman to like them and want to have sex with them.  They want the woman to be turned on sexually, and have a female orgasm.   Men want the woman to have a high sex drive, and be into having sex with them.  They want to please the woman sexually. The man needs to feel comfortable with the woman.  If a man turns on an adult woman, and gives her a orgasm, this is what turns on men sexually.

If the woman does not want to have sex with them, that is a big turn off and the man will not get an erection.  The man will have a soft flaccid penis.

Some married women may say “My husband or boyfriend is turned on when I am not”

This is because the husband equates the wife with sex. He has had sex with her many times in the past, she is his wife, and is turned on by his wife.  In his mind wife = sex. Because he has a sexually history with her, and feels comfortable with her.  And he has been taught that wife = sex his entire life. So it is much easier for him to get erections in this situation.

There will always be a few men who are perverts. That are not turned on sexually in the normal way.  These men give ALL men a bad reputation.  Men in the general population hate these perverted men.  They give men a bad name. There are some men whose perverted ideas are harmless, like being turned on by women’s shoes for example.  But, there are some men in rare cases, who are turned on in a dangerous way.  For example raping women, or being turned on by children. Men who are turned on sexually by children especially children younger than 12 years old.  Are very, very  rare.  Most men who are caught sexually with underage children, the children are juveniles who look like adults. For example, girls who are between the ages of 14 and 17 can look like adults, since females, usually stop growing, when they turn 14.  The point is that men like women who are or look like adults.  Men like curvy hour glass figures which is a trait of ADULT  women, not little baby girls.   When most men find out that an adult looking girl is underage, he will not pursue her.

We all agree that underage prostitution is bad, since this is an adult activity.

This needs to be stopped.  Only adults should engage in sex.  We all agree on that.

However, are all underage prostitutes forced and raped? crying, kicking and screaming while being forced, against their will to have sex for money?

If a prostitute is 17 and under the age of 18, she can not give legal consent.  So, she could have wanted to be a prostitute, and given consent for sex, but since she is underage, she can not give legal consent, so legally she was “forced” even if she gives total consent to sex and it was consensual - she was “forced” according to the court and justice system. There is a BIG difference between being legally “forced” and truly being physically forced against someone’s will.

This gives the impression that all prostitutes under the age of 18 are “forced” when they may in fact, not have been.  If fact, if two people who are both 17 years old have sex, they both are legally considered to be victims and sex predators at the same time. It is strange how the justice system works.

Most victims 17 and under are sexually assaulted by other juveniles who are also 17 and under.  Sexual assaults of adults are most likely to be committed by other adults.

There are many older adult women who are small, short, skinny and petite that look very young, especially from behind, and can very easily be confused with being under age, even though she may be 30 or 40 years old with grand children.  People in the general population may assume that a older man is dating a teenager, when in fact she is the same age or older than the man.  This is due to her size looking more like a small skinny kid.

Try getting into a night club with a small skinny petite friend and see which one of you gets carded for id.

There are also underage girls 14-17 years old that are six feet tall, with a large frame, or heavy set and fat, wear make-up and look older that many adults. These girls can be mistaken for adults especially it they are in the company of adults, or older looking kids.

Most missing children in the United States are the result of child custody battles between parents and families.  Or runaway  from home of their own free will.

In America a child can legally be considered kidnapped if the father, mother, grandmother, grandfather, aunt, uncle, or other family member safely takes the child with them, when the parents are divorced or separated.  This is the result of child custody battles.

Children also run away from home.  Most children who leave home are returned back home within a few days.   Many stay at their friend’s houses or a relatives house.

Some children (a small amount) continue to live with friends or are homeless, and stay missing, but of their own free will.

All these types of cases are reported as missing children.  This gives the impression that these America children are kidnapped by  Evil adult men who are strangers to them and  want to have sex with them, and make profit from them as forced prostitutes.   This is not the case.  Something like that happening is extremely rare.  Once in a while someone like Ted Bundy or Jeffery Dahmer may show up. These men were NOT pimps or Johns.  The reason why people still talk about them 40 years later is because men like this are extremely rare, and received a lot of media attention.

It is not easy for criminals to engage in sex trafficking activity:

Sex trafficking is illegal and the pentities are very severe.  It is very difficult to kidnap and force someone to be a sex slave prostitute for profit.  They would have to have 24 hour guards posted and be watched 365 days a year, 24 hours per day. Have the threat of violence if they refused, and have no one notice and complain to the authorities or police. They would need to hide from the general public yet still manage to see customers from the general public and not have the customers turn the traffickers in to the police.  They would need to provide them with medical care, food, shelter, and have all their basic needs met.

They would need to have the sex slaves put on a fake front that they enjoyed what they were doing, act flirtatious and do their job well.  They would have to deal with the authorities looking for the missing women, and hide any money they may make, since it comes from illegal activity. They must do all of this while constantly trying to prevent the sex slaves from escaping and reporting them to the police. They would need to prevent the general public from reporting them into the police. This is extremely difficult to do, which makes this activity rare. These criminals would be breaking dozens of major laws not just one.  Kidnapping itself is a serious crime.  There are many laws against sex trafficking, sex slavery, kidnapping, sex abuse, rape, sexual harassment etc.   If someone is behind it, they will be breaking many serious laws, be in big trouble, and will go to jail for many long years.

Kidnapping by strangers for ransom in the United States of America is very rare.

Even in Latin America, women who are kidnapped are not forced into being prostitutes. Because forcing and controlling women sexually for profit, so that men in the general population will pay for raping them against their will is very difficult.  Women who are prostitutes do this type of work of their own free will, and keep their money for themselves. Why would someone force women into it, when there are plenty of women who would do this work willing? Who would be easier to work with?

There is a lot of controversy over the numbers of adult woman who are forced sex slaves. The real factual answer is that no one knows.  There is hard evidence that the sex slavery/sex trafficking issue continues to report false information and is greatly exaggerated by politicians, the media, and aid groups, feminist and religious organizations that receive funds from the government, and charities. The estimate of adult women who become new sex slaves ranges anywhere from 40 million a year to 5,000 per year all of which appear to be much too high.  They have no evidence to back up these numbers, and no one questions them about it.  Their sources have no sources, and are made up numbers. In fact if some of these numbers are to believed which have either not changed or have been increased each year for the past twenty years, all woman on earth would currently be sex slaves.  Yet, very few real forced against their will sex slaves have been found.

Most Anti-Sex Trafficking, Anti-Human Trafficking, Anti-prostitution organizations like: Traffick911, Not for Sale, Change-org, A Future Not A Past, Polaris Project, Salvation Army, Women’s Funding Network, and the Dallas Women’s Foundation, and many more want the public to believe that:

All men are evil:

  1. All men would rape a small child, if given the chance.
  2. All men would get erections and are turned on by children under the age of 18 years old.
  3. All adult men would sexually abuse children, girls, boys, women if only given the chance, and thought they would not be caught.
  4. All men hurt children, only women help children.
  5. All men have these feelings, and act this way because they are men and cannot help it.  Therefore strong laws against men must to made to control the evil male population.  (of course all males in the world are evil)
  6. If a 5 year old child was crying alone in the street, because she was lost, these groups honestly believe that if a man came across the child first,  most men would want to have sex with the child, and charge other men money to have sex with his newly found child sex slave rather than help the child. If a woman came across the child they would always help the child.

There is hard factual evidence that most of these groups feel this way.   Just the fact that they tell lies that hundreds of millions of men victimize and rape millions of child sex trafficking prostitute victims without any proof, evidence or victims being found proves this.

Here are some good websites for more information about Sex Trafficking:

http://sextraffickingtruths.blogspot.com/

http://bebopper76.wordpress.com

The following information is from a report from the Crimes against children research center which talks about the Unknown Exaggerated Statistics of Juvenile Prostitution.

http://www.unh.edu/ccrc/prostitution/Juvenile_Prostitution_factsheet.pdf

Crimes against Children Research Center ● University of New Hampshire ● 126 Horton Social Science Center ● Durham, NH 03824 (603) 862‐1888●Fax: (603) 862‐1122●www.unh.edu/ccrc

I suggest you see the links below which talks about the myth of the average age of a prostitute:
http://www.confluere.com/store/pdf-zn/trafficking_web.pdf

http://eminism.org/blog/entry/62

9 Responses to Sex Trafficking – A Man’s point of view of Sex Slavery, Rape, Prostitution

  1. klh says:

    I am an anti-trafficking advocate and am VERY familiar with organizations like the Polaris Project, and Not for Sale. NO WHERE have I ever seen stated that ALL men are evil and wish to do the things you stated in that list. Let’s not resort to hyperbole. The facts are that being “forced” into prostitution does not happen from the customer, but from the pimp. They are “forced” or coerced by means of threat, beatings, and/or psychological intimidation. The average age of girls entering prostitution in the US is 13 years old. That’s the average, meaning some are older and some are younger. Do most men want to have sex with a 13 or 14 year old? Nope. But there are obviously plenty who either don’t have a problem with it, or who are doing so while believing that these girls are older than they are. If you don’t believe that, the take a look at the site, (perverted-justice) and take a look at how many men are willing to risk jail to knowingly have sex with an underage boy or girl. If you think that the sex industry is mostly willing adults who are waking up every morning happy to go turn tricks, and happy that they get to keep all that money, then you need to get your head out of the sand. Are there women who are prostituting themselves without a pimp? Yep. But I’d venture to say that’s the exception. You need to stop being so incredibly defensive and look at the facts of what’s really happening in the world of prostitution. And, next time you pick up a prostitute, good luck deciding if she is 17 or 18, and deciding if she’s being coerced by a pimp, or if she’s happy to be doing what she’s doing. I’ve yet to meet a prostitute who says, “Yep! When I was a little girl, this is what I wanted to be when I grew up. I love what I do.”

  2. ccdjaz6 says:

    Bebopper76 is part of the problem – people like this don’t understand that when a statistic is given it is based on “reports” where 13 is the average age based on arrests for prostitution. The correct answer is only a mystery because all the girls involved are not contacted. The sad thing is that 13 being the average, there are yet younger girls involved. I am not anti-sex. If prostitution was legalized this type of corruption would be far more difficult to accomplish (not impossible). The girls would be able to and willing to go to the authorities. It would also give them the protections the rest of us enjoys from our respective employers.

  3. Jennie says:

    If men really, truly, and deeply cared about women, children, and animals, there would be no rape, abductions, violent pornography, prostitution (no customers or pimps=no business), hateful, misogynistic rap music, misogynistic videos, magazine articles, commercials, fashion shoots, models that look as if they hadn’t eaten in years, female genital mutilation, emotional, physical, and sexual abuse, domestic violence, violent films involving women, jokes at our expense, date rape, strip clubs, etc etc ad nauseum. Do you understand my point? The world is a patriarchy, not a matriarchy. Women do not rule the world. Men and money do. I have been raped, assaulted, emotionally abused, stalked, harassed, etc. It has been so hard to keep my life together. Who has done this to me? Men. Women are hated all over the world. In China, The Middle East, Africa, Mexico, etc. Why? Yes, I am a feminist, and all I ask is that we get treated like equal human beings. Not sexbots, porn “stars,” or pieces of meat on two legs. I still go through hell today with men. As I have gotten older, nothing has changed. Look on the national sex offender registry. Who is the perps on there? Men. I don’t see life getting easier for women. Republicans are trying to take everything from us. The equal pay act didn’t even get signed! The message is clear-you are only a woman, and you better know your place.

  4. clevergirl says:

    You also need to understand that when they say “rape” it is not in the context of some violent act..it is in the context that the girl is under 18 and cannot give consent to have sex, by law. Also no one is physically forcing anyone to stay (most of the time, I have heard of some crazy people that tie girls to beds and the johns come in to have sex) but what they are talking about is a psychological hold on these girls.

    When someone is manipulated into this business it is normally because they are neglected, runaways or poverty…these men (and no, not all men are evil) prey on these types of girls and act like boyfriends. So for a period of time these girls feel special and then it turns to love and then it goes to psychological abuse. Sometimes they could be raped (violently) by several men, they could be threatened and then there are times the girls see no other way out, thinking what is there to go back to???

    So even if the statics are wrong… sex trafficking is still happening and even if it is happening to one or two girls, it’s waaaaaaaaay to many! And if the prostitutes and pimps that are “legit” are so against girls being treated this way, then let them join forces with the groups against sex trafficking.

    Go on YouTube and type in “sex trafficking”…I promise you will not have a hard time finding girls who have been affected by this epidemic.

  5. bebopper76 says:

    To clevergirl: So, I guess you are saying that one male pimp will have millions of girls fall in love with him. Once he gets them to fall in love with them he controls them. Wow ! he must be a real ladies man!
    How long does it take to get one of the millions of girls to fall in love with him? Is it easy for him to do this? Everything in your comment above is saying that the girls do this of their own free will, with no one forcing them in any way. Who can force someone to fall in love? Are all people who fall in love forced? Is it possible to force someone to fall in love? I thought the definition of falling in love means doing so of your own free will.

  6. Chris says:

    There are many feminist women’s groups who lobby the government and make the government and Law enforcement believe that all men are evil and all women are angels that can do no wrong when it comes to sex. They openly believe and promote that ALL men are rapists or future rapists. The prejudice and sexist hating of men is politically correct and encouraged in countries like America and Great Briton. Which they then force other countries to make anti-male laws or face economic or military sanctions. This creates a terrible environment for men since hating men because they are men is considered the right thing to do.

    They believe that all women should be treated like children in regards to sex. They feel that it is impossible for a woman to give consent to sex with a man. Therefore all sex with a man is considered rape. Any women who tells them that they gave consent to sex with a man they feel must be mentally insane and needs mental help. Because what women in their right mind would ever consent to having sex with a man?

    The feminist women’s groups on college campus, in law enforcement, government in America believe that when a woman says yes to sex –she really means no. No matter what the woman says or does the answer to sex is always –NO! YES means NO! No means NO, maybe means NO, silence means NO. If she gets sexy and physical with a man, and says she wants sex, the man must realize the answer is still NO! and walk away.

    My best advice for men in America is — DON’T HAVE SEX WITH A WOMAN! PERIOD ! — If you do, you can have lots of problems with the government, police, law enforcement, women’s groups, feminists, church leaders, lawyers, the university, news and the media.

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